Using your strengths to work together well
Working full time with your spouse? Read this.
Many people have asked us through the years what it’s like to work at home together. Oftentimes it’s presented with a hint of doubt, like they’re expecting us to respond “We’re barely getting by” or “It’s awful but it pays the bills.” We always laugh when we’re asked this question, because we both remember what it was like in the very beginning. John had recently transitioned into working full time with me at home, and we started out by working at the same desk, about six inches away from each other. I’m a natural introvert and while I love collaborating and creating together, I thrive in a day to day rhythm that allows me some solitude. We’ve gone through many iterations of what it looks like to work together, but here are some key takeaways from what I’ve learned over the past seven years.
How to Survive and Thrive Working Together
Create an environment that you love. Do you want music playing in the background? Do you prefer to sit or stand at a desk or sit on the couch? Whatever you do, don’t force the two of you to like the same environment. It’s OK (and probably healthy) if you have some focused time away to thrive in your own environment.
Divide responsibilities based on your interests and strengths. You do not both need to excel at customer service, product design, finance, and day to day operations. Wouldn’t that be nice! Find your niche and give the other the freedom to run with their part of the business. You’ll both be happier, and the business will be healthier as a result.
Make sure you eat enough. This one, surprisingly, is easy to miss when you’re self employed.
Establish boundaries. Don’t forget that your spouse isn’t just your business partner! Actually stop working at a mutually decided upon time (this one will flex through the seasons) and do your best to table your work for the next day. Some of our best brainstorming sessions have flowed during a drive, a date, or a vacation, so there’s no need to be ultra rigid here, but in general, make some time to not just be co-managers.
Change your surroundings. If you can do part of your work remotely, go to a coffee shop once in a while. Go on a hike to discuss an issue (I’ve heard that men do better with side by side conversations anyway).
This isn’t an exhaustive list, and we’re still learning. After becoming parents, we pretty much had to ditch the entire script and start from scratch, but there are still some core truths that have kept us on the right path. Some couples may not be able to work in the same room or even in the same house during the day.
Figure out what you both need, listen to each other, and running a business together can become just another part of the beautiful life that you’re creating as one.
Life is a Journey…
“Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.”
We’ve learned a lot about travel, business, finances, and how to work together - all while treasuring the in-betweens, the growth, the questions, and the uncertainty of entrepreneurship. We wouldn’t trade it for the world, and we’re here to share some of it with you.
Forrest Gump Was Right.
“Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.”
This is my first ever blog post. It’s been on my bucket list for a handful of years, and I realize I’m late to the party. After all, the word blog conjures up images of the late ‘90s where the Internet was still a burgeoning term to the masses and social media didn’t even exist. I wanted to wait until I was an expert at something - because why else would someone write a blog? What I’ve realized since then? We’re always learning, always evolving, always changing. Expertise is also really hard to quantify. At some point as the years go on, it’s time to stop and admit we’ve learned a few things along the way. As Emerson put it, “It’s not the destination, it’s the journey.”
So here it is. A brief synopsis of Journey Print Shop, and the couple behind it.
John and I met in the winter of 2016, in Grand Rapids, MI. I was working in government purchasing, and he was an engineer. We had no idea what our future held, but for the most part, he assumed he’d always work as an engineer and I’d continue some type of administrative career. We were married two years later, in 2018, and settled down in the Lake Michigan town of Holland, MI. Something we’ve been passionate about from the beginning is financial freedom and living debt-free (more on this later). During our first year of marriage, we dabbled in a couple of side hustles while we worked full-time, as more of a hobby than anything else. One of those hobbies eventually became Journey Print Shop, which we officially opened in January of 2019. By November of that year, I left my corporate job to work on our growing business full time. We all know what happened in 2020, so I’ll pause there for a brief moment only to say that John followed me in May of 2020 to self-employment, and we’ve been stay-at-home, married business partners ever since.
So much has changed since we started this business on a clunky old Macbook in the corner of our apartment kitchen. We’ve learned a lot about travel, business, finances, and how to work together - all while treasuring the in-betweens, the growth, the questions, and the uncertainty of entrepreneurship. We wouldn’t trade it for the world, and we’re here to share some of it with you.
Stay tuned.
Cheers,
John & Rachel

